Event and News Random Reflection

This time Last Year. I was busy getting MARRIED!!!

I have heard the phrase “how time flies when you are having fun” so many times  and it’s all coming to me on what the phrase actually stands for , I can’t believe I have been married for a whole year ,it feels just like yesterday.

I remember vividly all the excitement, the preparations , the vows taken ,I am sure you can relate to that ;today I am a wife and  I am loving every moment of it.

I will choose you over and over again .

God has taught me a few things these past 365 days ……….

I have learnt to totally trust God with everything, for HE is our source rather than my husband.

I have learnt to be contented with what we have and not to compare myself or my husband with others (very difficult but important).

To be anxious for nothing! Even when you are in need, the master settler is always there.

To always ask for God’s grace and for our love to be renewed on a daily basis.

I learnt early to encourage my husband when down and to truly listen to him when he needs someone to talk to or bounce an idea off. I am amazed at how much influence I have had over his decision making.

We mutually have the upmost respect for one another. We support each other even when right or wrong.

I have become his Number 1 fan and cheerleader and he has become mine. I could see myself with him till the end; he’s so much fun and my best friend (manger) in the whole world (next to my sister Folayemi).

We have fun together and laugh a lot, I have died totally to self (one of the first lessons I learnt) no more ME but US.

I have learnt I needed to help out with responsibility that require my attention ,I always try to look good and even when I don’t feel like it I make an effort .I learnt to accept his family and friends as mine and he mine  .

I have become thankful, outspoken (sometimes I am tempted to just withdraw into my corner and be alone) caring, forgiving, patient, humble, submissive and thoughtful. I try very hard never to argue all the time.

I try to let my marriage follow God’s design and to bring HIM glory

I have developed strength, sense of balancing work and family, love ,patience, passion and control; I make decisions that won’t affect my marriage negatively and with the high rate at which marriages break-ups , Jesus has being our strong hold. I not only bear my husband’s surname proudly but I also bear the name of our maker every single day.

I know it’s been a series of long lessons learnt but I thought I should share with you .Enjoy my personal thoughts and feel free to drop your comments

Till my next post.


  • This has to be one of the best things I’ve read today. May God bless your marriage the more. Thank you for sharing this message. I have really learnt a lot.

    • Thanks for stopping by and posting your comment African Sweetheart.

  • jerry

    Ur husband is a lucky man that u said yes to him.

  • May God continue to bless your home. I couldn’t help but read every line of your message.thanks for sharing.

  • Anonymous

    You will continue to b there for each other, and God’s love will not depart from ur house hold.

  • May God continue to bless your union and grant you many many many more blissful years together.

  • congratulations dear….i pray that the lessons you’ve learnt will be part of you forever and single ladies like *us* will see good examples from your marriage…
    Happy anniversary!

    • Thanks Patience and waiting for you to come join the club.

  • ibiso harry

    Congrates,my madam @ the top,you deserve nothing but the best,the lord God will continue to bless and keep ur marriage,you will live together and enjoy ur marriage,ijn,amen.

  • Anonymous

    HwA may God conitnue to bleSs ur union.

  • Anonymous

    Am glad I met you,you are in deed a great woman in total sense of it. I must say your husband is favoured to have you likewise you to have him… God whose started this will be with both of you till the end. Your marriage is blessed.

  • Anonymous

    Hapi married life dear God bless your home

  • osamu

    Happy wedding anniversary dear. God bless you guys today and always!

  • HWA dear, its all about God in ur marriage and appreciate the fact that he’s always first, a lesson to learn from ur experience. Many more blissful year in Jesus name. Blessed art thou among women. Cheersss

    • Thanks Goldenwealth and Amen.

  • Anonymous

    HML dear. I am sooooo happy 4 u and I bless God for your life.

  • HWA dearie,God Bless your home more abundantly IJN….AMEN

  • seyi suyi

    i am so happy for you,i really enjoyed reading this.wishing you more fun and great join as you journey on.happy wedding anniversary

  • Thanks Seyi Suyi and Amen.

  • God bless ur marriage honey

  • Anonymous

    Happy anniversary and May God continue to strengthen the bond between you two.Lesson learnt from your write up.

  • Amen and thanks.Glad you read through.

  • Onyeka

    HWA dear. God will continue to fill you home with joy. Please send me your contact,email asap for a product review on your blog. Thank you. Onyekaslimibe@mail.com

  • May you continue to grow in love and peace. Bon Anniversiare.

  • Anonymous

    Am so hpy fr u oooo my oga may God bless ur home amen. frm STELLA UR GIRL

    • Awwwh Stella ,longest tyme and thank you.

  • Anonymous

    is jst datam nt hpy i was nt deer. Stella

    • Awwwh, so sorry about that Stella.how are you doing?long time.

  • Anonymous

    But hope u wil makeup me fr my wedding??

    • Hello dear, as along as i am contacted before hand.thanks for stopping by.

  • ‘Wateni Harrison

    Truly time flies,am happy you are grown and still growing in lov,may God keep your lov fresh and happy for many many more years,hugs…

  • Aramide , i am still learning on the job tho. Amen and thanks .

  • I really enjoyed ur post…I I learnt two things there today. My marriage is just a month old cos I got married last month..We kinda share same month…Also I love ur blog so far I av read it…

    • Congrats and thanks so much for the compliments…